It was so surprise to me five years back when I saw this scan/writings of Mirza Qadyani against Hazrat Maryiam e.s (mother of hazrat Eisa)e.s Jesus and the way he defamed tribes of sarhad , jews and hazrat Maryiam E.s together .
Roohani khazyian 14 -page 300 (ayam alsulah)
“that their (afghani) women meet and talk freely to their betrothed, some of their tribes (afghani) do not make distinction between being engaged and being in the Nikah. (mga is clever how he use the words, here he is saying that even if one is engaged they would carry on as a married couple) women meet their fiancé openly and talk freely. Hazrat Maryam Sadiqa to go out with her fiance Yousaf freely, is the firm testimony on this Israeli tradition. Women of certain coastal tribes (afghani) cross the boundaries with their fiances to the extent that they get pregnant before the Nikah, they do not get frowned upon, and they push aside the issue laughing and joking about it. Just like Jews, they, being betrothed see it a kind of nikah, during which the is set too.”
URDU : “muslun un kay baaz qabial (tribes) main naata aour nikah main kutch chandan (little) faraq nahin samaghtay aour aurteen (women) apnay mansoob kay saath bilaa takaluf miltee hain aour batain kertee hain. Hazrat Maryam sidiqa kaa apnay mansoob yousaf kay saath kabal nikah kay phirna (go out) us israeely rasam per pukhta shahadat hai. Magar khawateen serhadi (women from serhad-coastal area) kay baaz kabail main yaiy mamaaslat aourton kee apnay mansoobon say hud say ziaada hoti hai, hutta kay baaz aoukaat nikah say pehlay hamal (pregnancy) bhee ho jata hai, gis koo buraa naheen mantay bulkay hunsee (laugh) thathay (laughing matter) main baat ko taal daitay hain, kayounkay yahood kee taraah yay loog natta (engagement) ko aik kisam kaa nikah hee jantay hain gis main pehlay mehr bhee muqarar ho jataa hai.
“”5th point is their customs, which are similar to Jews, as their tribes don’t make a difference between regular relationship and marriage. Ladies meet their fiance quite often. Hazrat Mariam used to meet with her fiance Yousaf (Yusuf)(Joseph) before marriage, this is quote sufficient evidence of jewish customs. But these customs are too much between women of tribes of Sarhad, some of these women even get pregnant before nikah (marriage), and its not considered bad, people used to get-away with it and laugh, because like jews they believe “this-arrangement” to be like a nikah, because before it they fix a dowry for it…”